Monday, April 27, 2026

In every classroom, students bring more than backpacks and notebooks. They also bring their feelings, stress, and life experiences.

As we know, these things can affect how students learn and behave. When students feel overwhelmed, it can be hard for them to focus, participate in activities, or get along with others. Because of this, helping students manage their emotions is just as important as helping them learn things like math and reading.

One helpful way educators can do this is by focusing on connection and calm. Connection and calm (i.e., mindfulness) focus on simple, research-based strategies that help students regulate their emotions and return to learning.

Stress and the Classroom 

Stress plays a significant role in student behavior. The American Psychological Association explains that stress is the “body’s emotional, physical, or behavioral response to changes in our environment”. In today’s world, stress is often considered a bad thing. However, stress can actually help us at times; it can help individuals to spring into action or help us stay motivated. But keep in mind that too much stress, especially over a long period of time, can make it hard for our students to manage their emotions, stay focused, and learn.

When students feel stressed, they often show it through their behavior. Educators may notice signs like: 

  • Irritability or anger 

  • Sudden outbursts or classroom disruptions 

  • Trouble staying seated 

  • Complaints of headaches, stomachaches, or other pain 

  • Pulling away from classmates/wanting to be alone 

These behaviors can be signs that a student’s body and brain are overwhelmed. Stress doesn’t just affect the individual student—it also influences the entire classroom environment.

Because of this, it is important to help students learn ways to calm their bodies and brains. When we teach these skills, we help to create a classroom environment where students feels supported and ready to learn.

The Benefits of Mindfulness in Schools  

(Calm) 

Mindfulness is one way teachers can help create connection and calm in the classroom. Mindfulness helps students focus on what is happening right now. It also helps them notice their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.

Research shows that mindfulness can help students in many ways, including: 

  • Improving self-regulation 

  • Bettering their emotional well-being 

  • Lessening emotional stress 

  • Improving attention and focus 

These benefits help students improve their skills related to executive functioning. Executive functioning helps students plan, focus, and manage their behavior. When students can manage their emotions and attention, they are better able to learn and handle challenges at school.

The Role of Co-Regulation 

(Connection) 

Learning to manage emotions is an important life skill. However, research tells us that most students do not learn this skill on their own. Children and teenagers learn how to regulate their emotions through supportive relationships with adults. This process is called co-regulation. 

Co-regulation happens when educators model calm behavior, provide structure, and guide students through strategies that help them manage their emotions. Over time, students begin to use these skills independently.

Practical Strategies for the Classroom 

Strategies that promote connection and calm do not have to be complicated or take a lot of time. Many can easily fit into everyday classroom routines. Three helpful approaches include mindful breathing, movement, and visual supports.

Mindful Breathing 

Breathing exercises may seem simple, but they are quite powerful tools. Breathing exercises help students to slow down and reset. Slow, controlled breathing activates the body’s natural calming response and can help reduce feelings of anxiety or frustration.  

Some simple breathing activities include: 

  • Box Breathing 

  • Hand Tracing 

  • Figure Eight Breathing 

These activities take less than a minute but can make a big difference in how students feel. 

P.S. Check out this blog post for detailed instructions on engaging in breathing exercises.

Movement as a Regulation Tool 

Movement is another great way to help students manage their energy and attention. When students move their bodies, they release built-up energy and often feel more focused. 

Short movement breaks might include: 

  • Cross-body movements 

  • Stretching or chair yoga 

  • Figure-eight arm movements 

  • Shaking out arms and legs 

Movement breaks can be especially helpful during transitions, after students have been sitting for a long time, or when they seem restless or distracted.

Visual Supports and Tools 

Visual supports aid students in recognizing and naming their emotions. They also support student autonomy, as students can use visual supports to choose what type of activity they want to use to calm themselves. 

Examples include:

  • Mindfulness collages

  • Emotion charts

  • Calm-down choice boards

  • Calming corners

    • Calming corners are quiet spaces where students can take a break, use calming tools, and reset before returning to their work.

      • Items like fidgets, breathing visuals, or soft seating can help make the space comfortable and inviting. However, educators need to clearly teach students when and how to use this space. 

These tools help students understand how they feel and choose strategies that best fit them to calm down.

Final Thoughts 

Helping students manage their emotions is an important part of supporting both behavior and learning. By adding small practices that encourage connection and calm, educators can create classrooms where students feel safe, supported, and ready to learn.

Even small changes—like practicing a breathing exercise, adding a movement break, or using visual supports—can make a big difference. When students learn how to calm their bodies and brains, they gain skills that help them not only in school but throughout their lives.

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